- Does your marriage look fine from the outside, but behind closed doors either you argue a lot or hardly talk to each other or both?
- Are you single and can’t find the right partner/a good relationship?
- Do you and your partner feel stuck in a rut, arguing about the same things over and over?
- Is the love and passion gone from your marriage, leaving you feeling more like roommates then lovers?
- Are you left wondering what happened to your sex life?
- Do you sometimes wonder if your marriage was a big mistake or why your relationship now is so different from when it first began?
- Are you eager to make changes in your relationship, but can’t convince your partner to join you?
- Have you or a friend tried couples counseling before and it didn’t help?
- Have you worked hard to advance in your career without realizing the toll your long hours and dedication may have taken on your marriage?
- Does your spouse complain that you’re always working or traveling and that you’ve neglected your relationship in the process?
You don’t have to live this way any longer. There is a way out of the patterns you and your spouse have gotten in where you have the same arguments and say the same things again and again.
Here at Couples Therapy Center, it is our goal to help you reduce conflict, reconnect, and rediscover the joy and love in your relationships. No matter what your situation is, we are confident we can help.
As a result of working with us, couples who come in for traditional therapy are no longer thinking about divorce because they WANT to be with each other. They’re talking more, having sex more, and they’re just plain happier together.
We can show you the solution. We can help you to feel less lonely and have fewer conflicts. AND we can do this even if your spouse isn’t willing to come in for therapy! You don’t have to live in a sexless marriage – it’s not what you signed on for and it doesn’t have to be this way. You can learn WHY you and your spouse interact the way you do and HOW to stop the negativity. There is a reason you are in the patterns you are in and we will teach you all about this. Nothing’s wrong with you – these conflicts are supposed to happen in a committed relationship. We’ll teach you why and how to learn from them.
You’ve probably been stuck here for a long time. Most couples wait through 7 years of conflict or distance before starting couples therapy! That’s way too long to live with the loneliness, arguing, isolation, and with little to no sex. Perhaps you haven’t been ready to begin before now. That’s OK: we reach out for help when we are ready. Or maybe you tried but previous couples counseling didn’t work OR made it worse! Maybe you didn’t find a therapist you fit well with. That happens all the time: clients don’t like one therapist’s style, something didn’t click for them, or therapists who don’t specialize in couples work inadvertently make things worse. Therapists’ styles are SO different from one another – as different as the therapists’ themselves. It’s OK to keep trying until you find a couples therapist expert that you like and trust.
For many of you, you have been reading articles on how to improve your marriage, but nothing you’ve tried has worked for the long run. Maybe your spouse has even tried something positive but after a short time, went back to his/her old ways. This is SO common. People want knowledge and try to learn by reading or copying something they see or by resolving to be different. But that’s not how humans change. We change when we’re in a supportive relationship. Marriages change when a good therapist supports the marriage. Stop beating yourself up for not being able to do it on your own. You need the supportive relationship a therapist can provide in order for lasting changes to happen. Maybe, before now, you didn’t know there was help for what your marriage was going through. There IS and you are IN THE RIGHT PLACE. You don’t need to find a new partner, the love you crave is right here!
