I just read a FABULOUS book that I’m eager to share with you. The title is The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks and it’s chock full of new learnings that can have a profound influence on you. It certainly did for me.  According to the book, there is only one thing that is holding you back from receiving more love, success, and money in your life.  What do you think that one thing is? It’s the limit you’ve unconsciously created for yourself.

When asked that question, some people will think the thing holding them back is an external situation such as a dead end job or a limited amount of resources.  For others, it’s blaming someone else’s faults for their own limitations, like a difficult boss or a shortcoming of your spouse’s.  While these may seem like the things that are responsible for holding you back, according to Gay, they are not.  What is actually holding you back is not something outside of yourself.  It is not caused by your environment and it is not about those you associate with.  In fact, and we know this as therapists, what holds each person back is his or her own beliefs – both conscious and unconscious. Read More