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Can You Avoid Impending Arguments? How Mindfulness Can Help

You can tell there’s a storm brewing in your relationship.  Your partner looks angry – you can see it.  You know he/she is getting close to the boiling point.  What do you do?  Do you leave (or run!)?  Do you brace yourself for the fight that’s coming?  Do you attack first?

You don’t have to do any of these things.  Instead, by being mindful of what’s going on with your partner, you (and your partner) can learn to avoid arguments.

Yes – by being mindful you can help avoid fights and diffuse tension.  How?  Mindfulness can be used to help bring your attention to the situation before it escalates.

The easiest way to bring your partner’s attention to what you see is to simply comment on what you’re noticing on the outside.  You might say: Read More