When people learn that I’m a therapist, they often ask me how I can spend all day listening to other people’s problems.  Many people imagine that my job is very difficult and draining.  For some people it might be, but it’s not that way for me.  I do this job because I love it.  I was drawn to doing this type of work and it’s perfect for me.

Why?  Because I notice people and their relationships.  I can feel what they’re feeling.  I can feel their painful feelings and I know how to help them feel better . I may be in a restaurant and notice a couple at another table who haven’t said more than two words to each other the whole meal.  I can see the discouragement and disconnection on their faces.  The passion and excitement is gone and I feel for them. Read More