Have you ever seen someone have a very strong reaction to something that seems minor?  From your perspective, you’re wondering what the big deal is.  Why are they getting so upset?
Of course, this happens all the time in marriage and other intimate relationships.  We see our spouse “freak out” over something small.  Often, we don’t even know what triggered their anger or upset.  When one partner witnesses the other get upset about something that seems trivial, it can be very confusing.  Many times, people in my office will tell me that their partner got very upset – and they had no idea why. Read More